Connection

We Are Water !!

Photo by Raymond Holberg

I love a fresh, clean, simple glass of water - it provides me a refreshing break in the day as I dive into the metaphors of cleansing and nourishment.  Happily I have lately been finding all kinds of ways to enjoy this healthy activity of drinking more water.  Simply. 

It feels good to connect with the 60+% of me that is fluid, this part I can so easily forget.  The fluid parts of me that flow and bend and relax.  Versus taking care of the muscular parts of me that often screech and call for vast amounts of attention.  This is the silent part that does it’s best to keep me healthy.

Water feeds our skin, the largest organ of our body, and it balances our digestive fires as well as flushing daily toxins out.  In fact I wonder if my recent thirst is related to the fire of emotions we have all experienced this past year and a half.  An attempt to calm them down, cool the singed edges.   

I first grew to appreciate the simple act of drinking water when I began gardening.  Those plants needed water.   Like the soil they were planted in, they equally needed water in order to thrive and grow. And they needed it consistently.    

We are really not all that different from the plants.  We need to feel safe rooting/grounding into the earth beneath us as well as relaxed, like the gentle flow of a stream, in order to thrive and take even the smallest steps toward growth.  Grounded and Relaxed - it is probably worth asking yourself “What do you need to gift yourself these qualities?”

Many people I know immerse themselves in water regularly, swimming their laps with focused energy.  Perhaps absorbed in the motion or floating with abandonment, freeing  the mental habits of the mind.   It is in fact probably the best thing they can do for themselves.  And intentionally or not, connecting with, aligning with, the 60+% of themselves that may have been forgotten.   Very healing self care in action.

Some friends of mine need their dose of the sound and smell of the ocean air regularly, to be near that ozone blast and force of wild nature.  Reportedly the ozone increases your ability to absorb oxygen and balance serotonin levels. This too feeds the silent parts - physically and emotionally.   Another very healing action, turning toward these elemental forces.

So they say that as humans we should drink 8 glasses of 8 ounces of water a day or alternatively just over 1/2 of your weight in ounces.  Though not everyone has the same requirements due to diet, overall health, and the amount of exercise they get, humidity, etc.  You get the idea.  Important to note: if you’re thirsty you are already dehydrated!  There are times when I wait until my lips are parched, my mouth chalky and then remember “oh yeah water” knowing it’s a little late in the game for staying in the curve of healthy, self care.

There are many benefits of increasing your daily water intake, here are just a few;

·    Moisture - Lately I have been adding a daily dose of collagen in my glass of water in an effort to add extra moisture to my hair, nails, and lubricate my joints.  This can help balance out the effects of the natural aging, drying process. 

·    Heart Health - Did you know?  Water is important for the electrical impulses that regulate your heart beat.  And we all want a regular heart beat!  Our bodies are like an intricate machine and they need their fluids to run smoothly, efficiently, and evenly timed.  

·    Cognitive Health - Let’s talk mental fogginess -  an adequate amount of daily water can make a big difference in this common malady.  Imagine you have an important meeting coming up, along with a sense that the clarity, the focus is just not there for you.  Most of us go for the caffeine, a dehydrator.  Water may be your more productive choice.  The brain itself is approximately 75% water and a small amount of dehydration results in 5 times the amount of decreased cognitive function.  Keep up your water reserves to think faster, focus more clearly, and gain the clarity we all seek by drinking water.

·    Facial Skin - The best thing we can do for the skin on our face, after sunscreen, is to drink our daily allotment of water.  This keeps our face hydrated and healthy looking, providing each cell what it needs to stay plump and elastic.  Because our cells, like our body composition are by nature 60%+ water. 

And it’s not lost on me living in California, that this craving for enjoying a sense of an abundance of water, is happening along side our most serious drought in years.  The earth too is thirsty !  Importantly we’re asked to conserve and yet there are still ways to be extravagant with a day at the beach, an hour in the pool, a refreshing moment at the kitchen tap.

So do your part.  Do it for your silent parts.  Take the next moment to enjoy and truly feel your body absorb a cool glass of healing water.

Connection during Covid Times

Photograph by Saffu

Photograph by Saffu

So how is it going - this swimming in a sea of uncertainty and concerned watchfulness?  This challenge of staying separate and yet connected, of pulling back while leaning forward.   We all share many of the same hopes, the same fears, the same anxieties, especially during times like these.  Walking around the neighborhood it feels good to offer the friendly smile or nod of the head, acknowledging we are all in this together.


In fact one of my awakenings that I have learned from my clients over the years is that so many of us hold a strong value around connection and a desire for a sense of community.  A value strong enough that if their world were falling sideways this word, this experience of connection would be the one thing with the power to right their ship.  A guiding force toward happiness and health.   

So we all crave connection and likely more so now that we are being asked to hold ourselves separate.  The Corona dilemma.... And our world has gone askew as we hear about so many - one day healthy, the next day seriously ill.  These times call us to open our hearts and change our habits, maybe in some cases not such a bad thing?  And the call goes out to be creative in how we stay connected, how we are supportive and how we stay healthy in our body and mind


I thought I would share some resources and a story, both to inspire and if needed to right your ships during this storm.  All of these are natural stress and anxiety reducers, and stress, much like sugar unfortunately, weakens the immune system.   Let’s all keep our immune systems strong, vibrant, and optimally functioning during this time!

 

  • I have for years now been Meditating for health, for awareness, and personal growth. Meditation is nothing more than taking a few quiet moments to check in with yourself and ask "How am I right now?  What am I really feeling?  Where am I feeling it?"   And then opening to that vulnerable place, the place we perhaps unconsciously keep hidden away.  I imagine quite a few of us feel some form of anxiety with the uncertainty that surrounds us right now.  These quiet meditative moments give our bodies and nervous systems a chance to find their equilibrium, rebalance and find some spaciousness that was being crowded out with fear and worry.  Let your breath be the self soothing, nurturing presence it is meant to be.  

 

  • Many of us had a regular practice of Exercise that we can no longer do publicly.  Maybe swimming, weight training, yoga or rock climbing?  And now more than ever with the built up stress or anxiety it is important to find an alternative.  I went to a regular pilates class that kept my body aligned, strong and healthy.  So now what?  There are many online yoga and pilates classes being offered in the safety of your own home, hiking (6 feet apart) in nature with a friend could be a very healthy option, more creatively turning the lights down and having an in-house dance party of your own ( thinking maybe the Kinks or Shins), or quiet, free form movement.  Really anything that helps get us out of our heads and into the beauty of a body in motion!

 

  • Healthy Diet right now is a must for the internal workings of a healthy body.  We have been cooking at home, actually only my husband has been cooking for our safety, more about that below....I know this is new territory for some, yet now that you have the space and time, cooking for yourself can be very creative and nourishes the mindbody in ways “to go” cannot.  So why not enjoy a new recipe, or spice, or free form food combo!  

 

  • Laughing and staying connected socially can make the difference between feeling anxious or feeling loved.  Try out the apps Zoom or House Party for a virtual cocktail party, costume party, or open mic stand up.   Friends near and distant are just out there waiting for an invitation!

 

  • And don’t forget your favorite Local businesses, restaurants and providers who may not be getting that government check soon enough, or ever.  Lend your support by reaching out with an online purchase of a gift card or order that you can use in the future.  Many are providing curbside pick up which I venture to guess is likely more sanitized than a warehouse delivery.  

 

And now my story.  Personally I have had a challenging month.  I came down with a viral infection that settled in my respiratory system.  I lost my voice literally and maybe figuratively too as I could not write to you my HeartWisdom family.  Actually I myself was a little lost, very distracted and a little fearful not only for myself also for my immediate family, close friends, and our global community.  My symptoms checked all the boxes for Covid19 and seemed to last forever.  Finally after waiting 11 days for my test results to come back I can now joyfully report they are negative!!   This changed my entire perspective - my world got a little brighter, a little bigger, a little less anxious.  This change in perspective was mentally shape shifting and reminded me of a skill I practice with many of my clients, that we define our own reality in many ways.  I still have to manage this ongoing bronchitis, though can do it now without the added weight of “what ifs” and separation.

 

Right now I am offering my skills as a wellness coach and meditation teacher.  I am happy to lead you in an inquiry or if you like your own personal meditation to help you weather this challenging time.  Or maybe you would like to experience a new, previously unimaginable perspective that lives within?    If you are feeling anxious, fearful, confused, or something else?   I would love to Connect and support you with a few minutes of Wellness Coaching - meaningful, honest conversation, completely free and confidential, completely open-hearted and connecting. 

We are connected !  
Shunya