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We Are Water !!

Photo by Raymond Holberg

I love a fresh, clean, simple glass of water - it provides me a refreshing break in the day as I dive into the metaphors of cleansing and nourishment.  Happily I have lately been finding all kinds of ways to enjoy this healthy activity of drinking more water.  Simply. 

It feels good to connect with the 60+% of me that is fluid, this part I can so easily forget.  The fluid parts of me that flow and bend and relax.  Versus taking care of the muscular parts of me that often screech and call for vast amounts of attention.  This is the silent part that does it’s best to keep me healthy.

Water feeds our skin, the largest organ of our body, and it balances our digestive fires as well as flushing daily toxins out.  In fact I wonder if my recent thirst is related to the fire of emotions we have all experienced this past year and a half.  An attempt to calm them down, cool the singed edges.   

I first grew to appreciate the simple act of drinking water when I began gardening.  Those plants needed water.   Like the soil they were planted in, they equally needed water in order to thrive and grow. And they needed it consistently.    

We are really not all that different from the plants.  We need to feel safe rooting/grounding into the earth beneath us as well as relaxed, like the gentle flow of a stream, in order to thrive and take even the smallest steps toward growth.  Grounded and Relaxed - it is probably worth asking yourself “What do you need to gift yourself these qualities?”

Many people I know immerse themselves in water regularly, swimming their laps with focused energy.  Perhaps absorbed in the motion or floating with abandonment, freeing  the mental habits of the mind.   It is in fact probably the best thing they can do for themselves.  And intentionally or not, connecting with, aligning with, the 60+% of themselves that may have been forgotten.   Very healing self care in action.

Some friends of mine need their dose of the sound and smell of the ocean air regularly, to be near that ozone blast and force of wild nature.  Reportedly the ozone increases your ability to absorb oxygen and balance serotonin levels. This too feeds the silent parts - physically and emotionally.   Another very healing action, turning toward these elemental forces.

So they say that as humans we should drink 8 glasses of 8 ounces of water a day or alternatively just over 1/2 of your weight in ounces.  Though not everyone has the same requirements due to diet, overall health, and the amount of exercise they get, humidity, etc.  You get the idea.  Important to note: if you’re thirsty you are already dehydrated!  There are times when I wait until my lips are parched, my mouth chalky and then remember “oh yeah water” knowing it’s a little late in the game for staying in the curve of healthy, self care.

There are many benefits of increasing your daily water intake, here are just a few;

·    Moisture - Lately I have been adding a daily dose of collagen in my glass of water in an effort to add extra moisture to my hair, nails, and lubricate my joints.  This can help balance out the effects of the natural aging, drying process. 

·    Heart Health - Did you know?  Water is important for the electrical impulses that regulate your heart beat.  And we all want a regular heart beat!  Our bodies are like an intricate machine and they need their fluids to run smoothly, efficiently, and evenly timed.  

·    Cognitive Health - Let’s talk mental fogginess -  an adequate amount of daily water can make a big difference in this common malady.  Imagine you have an important meeting coming up, along with a sense that the clarity, the focus is just not there for you.  Most of us go for the caffeine, a dehydrator.  Water may be your more productive choice.  The brain itself is approximately 75% water and a small amount of dehydration results in 5 times the amount of decreased cognitive function.  Keep up your water reserves to think faster, focus more clearly, and gain the clarity we all seek by drinking water.

·    Facial Skin - The best thing we can do for the skin on our face, after sunscreen, is to drink our daily allotment of water.  This keeps our face hydrated and healthy looking, providing each cell what it needs to stay plump and elastic.  Because our cells, like our body composition are by nature 60%+ water. 

And it’s not lost on me living in California, that this craving for enjoying a sense of an abundance of water, is happening along side our most serious drought in years.  The earth too is thirsty !  Importantly we’re asked to conserve and yet there are still ways to be extravagant with a day at the beach, an hour in the pool, a refreshing moment at the kitchen tap.

So do your part.  Do it for your silent parts.  Take the next moment to enjoy and truly feel your body absorb a cool glass of healing water.

Choosing To Yield

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Yield, such an amazing word. We don't often think about this word unless we are driving and even then there is some apprehension in the action of yielding. I suppose this could be because there is an element of uncertainty, of vulnerability. And yet Yield can be such an interesting word - soft, generous, intentional, purposeful - while ultimately taking you where you want to go, though perhaps a little slower.

 So yield in our driving, in our striving? Not only can we yield in our actions but also in our bodies. Softening the tensions in my shoulder blades, quads, between my eyes. So many places that tend to grip in Anticipation, as if putting the brakes on. Yield is a generous gesture that is inviting flow, not braking, and when approached from a mindset of cooperation can be a graceful movement forward.


 Augusta Moore, my Feldenkrais teacher, asks us to consider yielding in our cells. On a cellular level to soften, to be receptive and curious, to stop our habitual responses for just a minute and see how our bodies might respond in a different way than what might be predicted. To encourage this deeper yield it is helpful to be in a safe environment, reflective, mindful state.


Vidyamala Burch, the founder of Breathworks, has a meditative practice of leaning into your difficult situation as if leaning the weightiness of the situation onto a bale of hay, noticing how the bale yields a little under your weight, softens the hardness of resistance. I find this helpful in letting my imagination understand what it means to yield on a cellular level - because really who knows how to do that?? It's something worthwhile learning and experimenting with.

Just for a moment consider "What part of your body wants to yield?" Is there something in your mental, physical, or emotional being that would benefit from slowing down, stepping back, taking a deep breath, and yielding to the sweetness of the moment? What is calling you to pause and soften? Could it be a warm ray of sunlight on your face, a tight sore back that lets out a little complaint each time you move, or a sense of overwhelm that feels just so darn uncomfortable. The signs are all around us and we get to choose our approach - screeching brakes, distracted confusion, OR gently, with full intention, leaning into the situation and yielding into the flow.
 

Often we find ourselves stressed out in overwhelm and the yield signs seem to be screaming at us to pay attention. But wait I don't have time to soften, what about my responsibilities? My To Do list? The many expectations I carry on my shoulders? So it seems easier to ignore those yield signs, go into overdrive and before you know it - Crash !! Lots of drama and disappointment to go around. Stopped action and possibly some collateral damage.
 

The roller coaster of surge and crash with little yielding might be an exciting life for some or satisfying for a short period of time and then sooner or later the accumulative effect on the body says no more. Think about your car, or your spine, or your gut - just how many crashes can they go through before they no longer function in the ways you need them to? The mind too grows weary of constantly pushing upstream with little respite, sheer will power only goes so far and how pleasant is that?

 So where in your life is there the opportunity to experience the Yield?  It could be in yoga class, during a work discussion, figuring out with your partner how to manage a difficult situation, or even right now - check in, is there anywhere you are holding tension or notice tightness in your body? Let your breath find and soften this place, imagining your muscles and skin giving in a little to the weight of gravity.
 

I think that sometimes we worry "If I slow down I might just stop, or worse I might fail." And I would like to suggest that if you give it a try you might just find yourself right in the middle of that easy flow of life you've been dreaming about.